Someone wrote something that made me think about what I would do in a particular situation…. And then I talked about it with B… There’s a reason that boy is my bestest… He’s a great sounding board and he gives great advice too… Tonight he was just a good sounding board.
What did I read? A blog/post/journal entry type thing about what someone was trying to figure out what to do in this one particular scenario…
With concern to internet dating… If you’re ‘talking’ to someone (ie discussing dating) should you continue to look or should you wait for that one person?
I came to the conclusion, after talking to B… It really depends on the level of seriousness of the ‘talking’…. If its someone you’re serious about and have discussed potential for long term, and feel a certain level of intimacy (though how much intimacy you can feel when having never met a person I don’t know…) then yes for sure, wait for that person… But on the other hand, its someone you’re just casually talking to, getting to know, then don’t bank everything on that one person, they may or may not be the ‘one’ for you… And if the ‘one’ comes along while you’re waiting, what are you going to do, tell em sorry, I’m waiting for this person?!?!?
If you’re talking to someone you’ve met on the internet and they keep putting you off, they really don’t want to meet…. Or it means they just aren’t as into you as you are them…. I know when I’m into a guy, I can’t wait til I get to hang out with him…
Though I’ve never dated off the internet so I really guess its all a moot point…
So here’s something to think on…. Is it wrong to talk (just talk not talk about dating, just your basic flirting) with a guy just because he’s got a group of better looking friends and you hope you’ll get invited to join them and potentially hit on them or get hit upon? (does that make any sense?) I didn’t do it, but I’m just curious what people think….
