I've thought back to things that have happened in the last few weeks and I realized I reacted differently a few months ago. In a way thats more responsible, mature, with more of an adult like attitude.... Which is to be expected with age but I think I've been lacking. I think having my own place, a dog, bills to pay and that sort of thing has helped me develop this more 'grown up' version of me... 27's more than likely NOT the usual age when one begins to feel like an adult but screw that I've always bucked the trend whats one more....
As far as my ideas about the "Perfect Man" they're basically the same but revised and edited a bit too.... Let me explain... I've always wanted a guy who had a sense of humor... Thats always been a basic characteristic I look for... But I also want to find a guy that at some point would like to have kids (heres the edited part) and be a good father.... A guy whose Christian (Catholic/Protestant, its all basically the same), and someone family oriented. Someone whose honest and trustworthy to boot... I've started thinking about those characteristics and while they're great, I wanted to add some stuff.... Like I really need someone to be the yin to my yang, Ashton to my Demi (maybe without the huge age gap?), the Luke to my Laura (minus all the drama), someone strong in areas I'm weak in... Like math and sanity....
Pretty much someone to balance me.... I need someone that can be a rock and remind me to get my head out of the clouds when I'm in la la land, going nuts or hyper like I sometimes tend to do... But also someone who can snuggle on the coach on a rainy night, or go out to a concert... Someone who knows how to have a good time but knows when its time to be serious.... Someone who is a polite, a gentleman, with a sense of romance, and doesn't mind being spontaneous.... Someone who knows how he is and where he's going and doesn't mind when I need my space... A guy with a love of music would be nice but an appreciation of it would be acceptable too, since music is a huge chunk of my life.... Even though I can't play an instrument to save my life, I do like a good show.... A guy that likes animals would be nice too... Love me, love my dog and all that good stuff....
I'm nowhere near ready to get married or have kids yet but I've like to one day. I'm only ready now to start considering those things... And start looking for the guy I think is perfect for me.... As far as the whole the right guy will come along when you're not looking stuff and God will send you the right guy when the time is right... Well in theory its all well and good but in practice? It doesn't help your love life.... I'd love for those things to happen but in reality, Mr Right is not going to just drop into your lap or come knocking on your door looking for you..... I'd love for happily ever after to happen to but I also know from experiences of friends, thats not a given either... Relationships take work, lots of work to keep up, whether its a love relationship, your family or your best friend... All different kinds of relationships but all require a certain degree of maintence...
But back to the Perfect Man.... I've been finding that with 'old age', the less guys are available, and of those available the pickings are slim with that particular dating pool.... The less guys available it seems the chances decrease even more that I'll ever be able to find even the 80 percent er (a Dr Phil thing) of all the things I'd like to find in a guy....
And now the rain has let up and I can go walk the dog and run my errands... Whoo hoo....
Laters.
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