Friday, January 06, 2006

Ok so in this entry Dr Phil says to define your character of Him (ie your perfect guy). But he says (and I believe him) you’re never going to find someone whose 100% of your list but if you can find a guy whose 80 % then you can work on that last 20 %... That’s kind of a cool way to put it… So here’s my definition of Him. I’ve been told I’m either too picky or not picky enough in a lot of cases… I need to find some happy medium… (ie find the guy with 80 %) And I agree… So my list… Its really hard not to think of any particular person… Its like I want to take bits and pieces of different people I know and put em into this one perfect man… Very Frankenstein-like… So lets go shall we…First and foremost he’s got to have a sense of humor… I’m amused by pretty much anyone and everyone in some way so that’s not too difficult… Someone who’s a bit of a smart ass, like Kevin… But knows when he’s gone too far… One who can be my friend and my man at the same time… Someone who is respectful of me and women in general… A gentleman or a nice guy, if you will… Like Ev or W…. Someone who’ll open doors… Also someone who can be romantic… I like hearts and flowers and all that good jazz… Someone who can give good back rubs would be a bonus… Someone with a passion for music, since it’s a huge part of my life and who I am… A guy who likes to cuddle but isn’t clingy…. Someone honest, sincere, and trustworthy…. Someone who respects my uniqueness… Also unmarried, uninvolved, and not gay are kind of givens…. At least for me… Also someone whose not into drugs, or is an alkie (though alcohol in moderation is okay)… Which brings up the age thing a lil… He also has to be old enough to drink legally… Someone who is intelligent, and responsible. Someone who is successful, ambitious but not a workaholic, has goals in life, financially stable, not living with his parents, keeps in shape, likes kids and animals, gets along with his family, and respectful. Someone tough but sweet. Like a Blow Pop. Or jerky… Also I’d like to find a guy not afraid to be the ‘man’ in the relationship but respects the fact I have a life apart from him, I did before I met him and I will continue to. Someone I can trust, respect, and who can communicate well.
Physically… I have a weakness for blue eyes, but its not that big a deal… Matthew McConeghey’s body, eyes and dimples would be nice but unlikely… I really like all guys physically… Short, stocky types, tall, skinny ones…. (though I think its nice when a guy is taller than me (and I'm 5'5" so its not hard to do)and not a bodybuilder but not Chris Farley either)Blond, brunette… blue eyes, brown or green…. I like all types of guys.. The preppy ones… The artsy/alterno/musician types…. Surfers and other extreme boys (skaters, etc…) … I do have a weakness for cowboys I have to admit… The physical stuff isn’t really as important as all that other stuff, but there has to be some sort of physical attraction…So that’s my 100 % list. Now I just have to find the 80% guy… The story to be continued on As Ali’s Life Turns… Laters.

posted by Ali @ 1:08 PM

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