Monday, October 03, 2005

I was complaining about being single earlier and Sean told me I should make a list… A list of qualities and characteristics I like in a guy and actively pursue finding a guy that fit them… He says I’m either too picky or not picky enough in a lot of cases… I need to find some happy medium… And I agree… He said I shouldn’t try to think of any one person that I’m into otherwise my list would be a bit biased… Also right… I have to hand it to him, he does do good ideas on occasion… And after an all nighter of playing San Andreas, that really impresses me… He was bouncing ideas off me for when Lori comes back from Cali later this week…. He’s got some really good, really romantic ideas… If I didn’t think of him as a brother and he wasn’t engaged…. Yeah… :0) So my list… Its really hard not to think of any particular person… Its like I want to take bits and pieces of different people I know and put em into this one perfect man… Very Frankenstein-like… So lets go shall we…
First and foremost he’s got to have a sense of humor… I’m amused by pretty much anyone and everyone in some way so that’s not too difficult… He’s also got to be able to give and receive heckling… I do it to everyone even myself and I don’t want to feel like I’m hurting someone’s feelings… Someone whose a bit of a smart ass, like Kevin… But knows when he’s gone too far… Also someone who knows how to listen and can provide a good sounding board if I have a problem… You know be a good communicator and stuff… Like B is…. One who can be my friend and my man at the same time… Someone who is respectful of me and women in general… A gentleman or a nice guy, if you will… Like Ev or W…. Someone who’ll open doors… Also someone who can be romantic… A girl likes hearts and flowers and all that good jazz… Someone who can give good back rubs would be a bonus… Someone with a passion for music, since it’s a huge part of my life and who I am… A guy who likes to cuddle but isn’t clingy…. Someone honest, sincere, and trustworthy…. Who likes kids and animals… Someone who respects my independence and my uniqueness… Also unmarried, uninvolved, and not gay are kinda givens…. At least for me… Also someone whose not into drugs, or is an alkie (though alcohol in moderation is cool)… Which brings up the age thing a lil… He also has to be old enough to drink legally… I’m very Mrs Robinson like here lately so yeah…. Someone who is goal oriented and has ambition in life and is actively pursuing his dreams… Someone who is intelligent, and responsible and not afraid to get down and dirty…. In all ways… ;0)
Physically… I have a weakness for blue eyes, but its not that big a deal… Matthew McConeghey’s body, eyes and dimples would be nice but unlikely… I really like all guys physically… Short, stocky types, tall, skinny ones…. Blond, burnette… blue eyes or green…. I like all types of guys.. The preppy ones… The artsy/alterno/musician types…. Surfers and other extreme boys (skaters, etc…) … I do have a weakness for cowboys I have to admit… Its not really as important as all that other stuff, but there has to be some sort of physical attraction…
That’s quite the list… And I tried not to think of any one particular guy but that’s hard…. So yeah with all those requirements, will Ali find a the perfect guy? Or better yet, if she does, will she have the nerve to get and hold him? That’s still to come on As Ali’s Life Turns…. :0) And I may actually take a piece of advice from a romance novel shocking... It went something like... If you're a smart woman, and you find a man like that just say to hell with the timing and thank your lucky stars.... Laters….

posted by Ali @ 1:46 AM

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